Saturday, November 14, 2020

#SatSpanks - 11/14/20 - "A Dom's Dilemma" - Building Trust #BDSM #MedicalPlay #Dom-Sub

 She needed his protection, except he insisted on her honest submission first.

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Welcome to the Saturday Spankings blog hop.  My stories are all M/f with the dominant male determined to protect the woman he cares for and loves, or grows to love, by doing whatever it takes to ensure her safety and continued health.  This includes administering a spanking when she needs one.  

My submission for this week is from my first BDSM novel, A Dom's Dilemma, published by Blushing Books.  

In this scene, Jim, a former Texan who works as a police detective by day and lives and plays as a Dom by night, is mastering Kelly Franklin in the Velvet Chains BDSM club.  This is their first night together, and though Kelly is still a bit apprehensive of her new Dom, she's also far more attracted to him than she ever expected to be. After an intense session, he wraps her up in a blanket and holds her on his lap as they talk. Jim is interested in doing more with Kelly, but he senses she is hiding something. So, he remains cautious with her as he establishes their limits and discusses the possibility of more between them.

"So, you think you can trust me now, Kelly girl?"
After gazing at him for a moment, she risked running a hand through his hair to push his bangs back.  The shiny strands glided over her fingers like finely spun silk, then returned to their original position, as smooth and stubborn as their master.  She smiled, lightly blushing when he smiled in return, still waiting patiently for an answer to his question.  Her blush deepened.  "Yes, Sir.  You treated me with consideration and respect.  And even though you restrained me, you didn't try once to humiliate or hurt me."
"I'm glad you think so, darlin'," he replied, his humor over her distraction evident in his voice
Embarrassed, Kelly glanced down at her entwined fingers.  "I still don't understand why you insisted on using restraints though, Sir.  That does add an element of uneasiness to the experience, you know?"
"Yeah, I do.  You'll find I pretty much have a reason for everythin' I do, and your overreacting ended up makin' it necessary, I'd say."
She shrugged, not quite sure she agreed.  "Perhaps.  But you didn't know I was going to freak out when you told me you intended to restrain me."
"No, I didn't."
Frowning, Kelly met his gaze again.  "So why do it?"
"You gave the reason yourself, darlin'.  To build trust.  A sub who's restrained during a medical procedure is very vulnerable.  Wouldn't you say?"
"Yes, Sir."
"So, for her to let me do what I want, knowin' she might find it uncomfortable and embarrassing, takes a certain amount of trust, right?"  Kelly knew from experience that it did, so she agreed.  "That trust is precious, Kelly.  It's something I would never abuse, but it is something I have to build toward pretty quick if the two of us wanna start doin' some of the things I like.
"I suspect if I told you I needed to give you another enema, you wouldn't be happy about it, but the notion wouldn't send you into a fit of hysterics, either.  Would it?"
Admittedly, no, she wouldn't be happy.  However, when she considered how carefully he'd treated her, Kelly suspected he'd be able to convince her to submit, so she shook her head.  "No, Sir."
"No, you'd most likely agree without too much fuss.  And if I said I wanted to have anal sex, you might be a little fearful of the act, but not of me directly.  You'd trust me, even if you were uneasy about doin' what I wanted.  Right?"
Though that one wasn't quite so easy for Kelly to agree to, she did it to save an argument.  "Yes, Sir."
"Good.  Can you see the difference in your attitude now, versus how you felt when I first told you what I intended to do?"

Kelly has a past she's not willing to share with anyone, but withholding valuable information from a Dom is never a wise course of action for a sub to take. Jim hopes to impress this lesson, among others, on Kelly, even as he realizes it's too soon for him to insist she confide all her secrets. Instead, he tries to get her to understand why her trust is so important.

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About the Author:

Though A Dom's Dilemma is Kathryn R. Blake's first BDSM novel and second spanking romance (a romance where spanking takes a prominent place in the plot), it is not the first book she has written in which the hero spanks the heroine.  In fact, most of her novels have some sort of spanking in them.  To date, all of her heroes are Dominant, alpha males who are extremely protective of the women they love.  However, part of that protectiveness includes the desire for a certain amount of control.  They do not suffer defiance or disobedience lightly.  In fact, it is something they refuse to tolerate, and will take firm steps to ensure the undesirable behavior is not repeated.

Besides writing, Kathryn enjoys traveling, reading, attending the theatre, and is a passionate lover of animals, so much so that in 2015 a stray cat adopted her. The stray now sleeps in Kathryn's bed.  In addition, she has taken up the expensive hobby of making and selling jewelry

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  1. Love this excerpt Kathryn, trust is so important.


  2. Building trust can take time. Sounds like he's going about it the right way.


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